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Mic Kuro's avatar

Oh Nob. I didn’t know, of course. Our lives muddled along apart in different hemispheres. I have always missed you both, of course but I always felt good knowing Nob and Takako were living the best life in the Canadian ‘wilderness’.

When we were in Tokyo, I felt like Takako was a kindred spirit and I presume to think she felt so too.

In my heart, I will always see her at the Obon Odori looking at me with deeply knowing eyes, like she could see the spirits of who I was, had been and am now dancing around us all.

Mike.

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Nob Ogasawara's avatar

Thanks, mate.

She was such a handful, but she was my handful, damnit.

I'm getting on with tying up loose ends so I can get on with getting on.

The only real thing keeping me anchored is my beautiful mutt now.

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Mic Kuro's avatar

Yea, dogs are the best. My wee girl (profile pic) got me through a very rough patch.

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Mic Kuro's avatar

Sorry. Made that about me. 😞

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Nob Ogasawara's avatar

No, man, I appreciate it.

Thanks for recalling her so beautifully.

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HaskelR's avatar

Nob, I'm glad you're working through it how you can, and I'm thankful that you're willing to share what you're going through.

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Jason W's avatar

Just read the whole thing here on my sofa in rural Japan. I had to stop twice to go spend a little time my wife and little son, resting in bed with the flu. Thank you so much for this- it’s beautiful. I will think of it often, I suspect.

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Nob Ogasawara's avatar

Thanks.

My hope is that people will step back, take stock of what they have, and cherish their loved ones.

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